How to Have a Birthday

How to Have a Birthday is one of our favorite birthday books to read! The whimsical illustrations and beautiful text are a treat every time we read it.

(2021) written by Mary Lyn Ray, illustrated by Cindy Derby

We have a really sweet collection of picture books to read to the kids on their birthdays, but when I found this book a couple years ago, it quickly became my absolute favorite one.

How to Have a Birthday book review

How to Have a Birthday goes through a birthday day and the special feelings and simple traditions that come with having a birthday. I love the loose, flow-y approach to this description of how a birthday day might go. I feel like the open-ended, fluid feeling leaves room for the day to be whatever it will be.

People May Sing to You
Or you can make up a little song and sing it to yourself.

The whimsical illustrations by Cindy Derby pair perfectly with Mary Lyn Ray’s beautiful text. The “shivery feeling that belongs only to a birthday” is portrayed so sweetly in this gorgeous book. I definitely recommend checking it out for the next birthday in your house – including your own!

How to Have a Birthday by Mary Lyn Ray, illustrated by Cindy Derby
How to Have a Birthday
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If you’re interested in a video about homemade birthday crowns and party hats, you can check out this video on my ReduceReuseReimagine channel: